Is it unfair or just unlucky?

The words you use to describe your experience are a big deal and so are the images you create in your head.  Describe something as unfair and you enjoy being a victim of circumstances. Describe it as an unlucky and you become a victim of random. You are still a victim but to a lesser degree. Describe it as your mistake and accept as responsibility.  Now you take a control of your destiny.  Rare times when there was nothing you could do to improve your experience.  Not only the experience matters but what have you remember of it.  It’s to your advantage to learn your lessons and take care of yourself in the future rather than starting “trying to protect others” political campaign. Desire to turn negative experience into a political campaign or even a law is contagious.  The media heating this desire every way it can.  It is media business.  But do you want to make it yours? Would you permit an experience to change a direction of your life? In most cases you are reacting the way your surrounding has programmed you and expecting you to react like a Pavlov dog. Most of us deep inside do not want to entertain the stupid but we do.  Step back, calm down, decide what is to your advantage?

You can turn your experience into art.  Great art!  There are artist who seek experiences to stimulate themselves.  Art of social criticism can be entertaining.  In the world where everything is trying to shock human senses it is not easy to catch someone’s attention. The only viewers that are always on guard are those self-appointed dignity-police members. They want to censor artists language and influence their thinking. They are organized and vocal. It takes a skill to get your point across for politically incorrect issues in a clear and uncontested manner.  In fact in the society of media tyranny it is just as difficult as in the society of censorship.